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Marriage Gems & Lectures

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Maryam Lemu - Half of Faith Episode 1

My husband Sa'id Takuma joins me in this 7 episode series on marriage. We talk about how we met, what went into our decision to get married, the challenges we faced, and the reality shock that marriage wasn't what we expected it to be, and a whole lot more.
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Maryam Lemu - Half of Faith Episode 2

In this second of 7 episode series on marriage, my husband Sa'id and I talk about the importance of truly addressing any excess baggage. How some of our past relationships and experiences can affect the marriage in a negative way.
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Maryam Lemu - Half of Faith Episode 3

In this third episode, Sa'id and I talk about the importance of getting to the root cause of the troubles we had in the early years of our marriage and how we finally started to see the light.
We discuss how putting one's ego aside and accepting constructive feedback is critical to long-lasting peace.
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Maryam Lemu - Half of Faith Episode 4

During this episode, we talk about conflict and the creative methods we explored to resolve them and get to where we are today.
It's not to say that we don't have disagreements, what has changed over the years is we don't fight and we don't quarrel.
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Maryam Lemu - Half of Faith - Episode 5

Welcome to the fifth episode. During this episode, Sa'id and I talk about how we came up with a "Code of Conduct" for our marriage.
How it has served as rules and guidelines that we follow religiously.
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Maryam Lemu - Half of Faith - Episode 6

In this episode, we continue on the topic of developing your customized "Code of conduct." We talk about feeding each other's spirits by validating one another, ensuring you always have something in common to do and talk about and making sure you do not give your spouse reasons to seek fulfilment outside the home.
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Maryam Lemu - Half of Faith - Episode 7

In this episode, we share some very important pre-marital advice. Sa'id talks about the importance of investigation. Looking into the background of the person you want to marry. Asking questions and observing their mannerisms, their moods etc. 
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Maryam Lemu - Half of Faith - Episode 8

Welcome to the final episode of our journey. This was so much fun to do, and I pray that what we have shared with you, will be a source of hope, a source of light and a source of encouragement. It is our hope and prayer that by sharing our story, you will also try your best to make your relationship work.
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KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE - LIVING WITH DIGNITY AND LOVE PART 1

Maryam Lemu talk about the key to a successful marriage - living with dignity and love part 1
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MARYAM LEMU - KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE PART 2

Maryam Lemu talk about the key to a successful marriage - living with dignity and love part 2
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Emotional Bank

Learn to deposit in each other's emotional bank account. Learn about each other's love language so you deposit in the right currency. 
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Guard your marriage jealously

 Create your own marriage culture.
Do not allow others to interfere, impose or dictate how you will relate with your spouse in your own marriage.
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LEARN TO HAVE Common Interests

Try as much as you can as a couple, to share common interests. This has transformed our relationship beyond words.  
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DEVELOP A Code of conduct FOR YOUR MARRIAGE

One thing that has helped strengthen our relationship over the past 29+ years is developing a "Code of conduct" for our marriage. 
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The Grass is not always Greener so Nurture yours with Love

The Grass is not always Greener so Nurture yours with Love.
Sometimes we look at what others have and wish we had the same.
Be careful comparing your spouse or your relationship to that of your friends, parents and others. Every marriage is different and unique. 
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Parenting & family

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BE CAUSCIOUS & DELIBERATE PARENTS

Have children when you know you are going to be conscious, deliberate and present in their lives. This applies to both parents. Our children didn't ask to be born and kids are not experiments. 
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WHY HAVE CHILDREN?

Can't spend enough time talking about the importance of being intentional, deliberate and active parents.
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MARRIAGE GEMS

Never fight in front of your children.
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Building a Beautiful Muslim Home

Salams. I am sharing a video from the 2018 1Ummah Convention held in Lagos, Nigeria. I met the most amazing people. Very hospitable, warm and friendly. My topic was "Building a Beautiful Muslim Home".
I pray you find it to be of benefit.
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Interview with my son, Nurain Takuma

I had one of the most fun interviews ever. It was so strange being interviewed by my own sonđŸ˜ƒđŸ€Ł. We had a blast. He asked some questions his followers wanted him to ask and also some he wanted to know. It was looooooong. Hope you enjoy it too. Nurain creates motivational videos and tells inspirational stories. 
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MARRIAGE GEMS

Have children when you know you are going to be conscious, deliberate and present in their lives. This applies to both parents. Our children didn't ask to be born and kids are not experiments.  
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SUGAR & SPICE

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Maryam Lemu - Ladies Only Episode 1

Sharing some tips as promised on how to spice up the marriage and strengthen the intimacy bond between you and your spouse.
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Maryam Lemu - Ladies Only - Marriage Gems-Episode 2 - Part 1

"Marriage Gems". As promised, this is the second of a four part episode. A while back I conducted a survey of "What decent men and women want in their spouse". 
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Maryam Lemu - Ladies Only - Marriage Gems - Part 2 "What decent men want"

Assalamu alaikum. Welcome to the series I am calling "Marriage Gems". As promised, this is the second of a four part episode. A while back I conducted a survey of "What decent men and women want in their spouse". 
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Maryam Lemu - Marriage Gems - Part 3 "What women DO NOT want in their spouse"

Welcome to the series I am calling "Marriage Gems”. This is the third of a four part episode. A while back I conducted a survey of "What decent men and women want in their spouse".
During the previous two episodes, we explored what decent men WANT and what they DO NOT want. Now it’s the turn for the Ladies.
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Maryam Lemu - Marriage Gems - Part 4 "What decent women WANT in their spouse"

Welcome to the final dish from my “Marriage Gems” series.
In this episode, I talk about what “Decent women WANT in their spouse”. These are responses to a survey I conducted a while ago. Like I said in previous episodes, the list is far from exhausted.
I have received tremendous feedback from you and additional concerns and good stuff to add to future episodes. Thank you so much and please keep them coming.
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Maryam Lemu - Fulfill all your spouse's needs

I gave a talk in December on marriage. in this clip I talk about the things I had to do to fulfill my husband's needs to ensure we have more in common. Make sure your spouse's favourite recreations involve you. 
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Look ATTRACTIVE FOR ONE AONOTHER

We have developed a culture of always staying clean and fresh for one another. Even on lazy Sundays. We wear casual clothes, however, we are well-groomed and we smell good for one another. 
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It's all in the details

My mum always said.
You both have to develop a culture of doing small, sweet things for one another.
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Sexual frustration

We have to always ensure that we fulfil all our spouse's needs, wants and fantasies. Sexual frustration is destroying many marriages today and leading some spouse's to get off the straight path. 
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Satisfy Your Wife's Desire - Powerful Reminder - Mufti Menk

There is no shame when we speak about this important topic.
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You will be notified of the date as soon as it has been set. 
You do not wanna miss this!
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